The Sisters in Walsingham
[the later section updated by Sister Mary Angela SSM in August 2020]
The story of the subsequent conflict between these two very strong personalities is told in detail,
using original documents from the Walsingham Archives, by Michael Yelton in chapter 10 of his
biography of Fr Patten (2006; 2nd edn 2022). Fr Stephenson's account is in Walsingham Way,
published in 1970 and reprinted in 2008 (pp 179-89 in both editions). Michael Yelton deals with the
whole history of the Sisters throughout his book.
The outcome of the conflict was the departure in early 1947 of the Laleham sisters, and the arrival
on 16 April of three Sisters from the Society of St Margaret, sent by Mother Cicely from St
Saviour's Priory, Haggerston, in East London. These were Sisters Margaret Mary (the senior),
Angela and Julian, who thus formed a branch house.
someone who was there at the time wrote:
I well remember the three sisters actually arriving - at about 4.30 pm by train. They
immediately got down to work, Sister Angela in the Anglican Shrine Sacristy and Sister Julian
to cook supper for a large number of people who were staying at the Hospice. Sister Julian
also managed to fit in being Sacristan at St Mary's Church.
The story of how Fr Patten brought this about is well known and often highly
embroidered. The plain truth was that when in London for a routine meeting of the
Guardians' executive committee in March 1947, he had discussed the problem of the
sisters with Fr Reggie Kingdon, a Guardian and experienced East End priest, who had
suggested that he go to St Saviour's Priory to talk to Mother Cicely, which he did that
very day, before returning to Norfolk.
He presented the change to the readers of Our
Lady's Mirror in the Spring/Summer Number of
1947, as follows:
The little Community of Our Lady of Walsingham, as
many of our readers will know by now, has come to
an end, and the Sisters who were testing their
vocations have either gone on to other Communities
or found they have no vocation. Their place has been
taken by the Sisters of the Priory of S Saviour,
Haggerston, who most gallantly stepped into the
breach and generously came to our aid. They have
come in the hope and with the intention of forming a new Community for Walsingham, and so
we hope eventually we shall have our own long longed-for Convent. S Saviour’s is an
autonomous Convent sprung from and within the Congregation of East Grinstead, with its
own Mother and Noviciate, and we look forward to the time when such a House can be
established here, a daughter of S Saviour’s and within the same great and venerable
congregation. The spirit of Dr Neale [its founder] seems to watch over our Sisters and we
trust it will develop and strengthen. Your prayers are asked for the Sisters of S Saviour’s
Priory and those working here, and we must not forget those who so generously gave
themselves for the work of the Shrine in past years; the Community of S Peter, Laleham, was
for many years untiring and unstinting in its generosity and we owe much to the Reverend
Mother Sarah and her Sisters. So, too, our prayers must go up for those who in recent years
came to test their vocations in the Priory of Our Lady of Walsingham and who laboured with
so much love for Our Lady's House. It is sad when changes take place and yet there are
always compensations, and whilst missing our old friends very much we are more than happy
with our Sisters and grateful to the Mother of the Community of S Saviour’s for their great
venture of faith.
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This account of the Society of St Margaret in Walsingham, below, was written by Sister
Mary Teresa SSM in 2009 and has been on this website since then. In 2020 Sister Mary
Angela SSM updated and continued the story.
Sister Mary Teresa SSM died on 12 January 2021: may she rest in peace.
All text below this is © The Priory of Our Lady.
THE PRIORY OF OUR LADY, WALSINGHAM
In 1855 Dr John Mason Neale founded at East Grinstead in Sussex the Society of St Margaret. This
great priest inspired the first Sisters with the understanding that God is glorified not primarily by
getting some particular work done, but by entering deeply into the mystery of Christ, and each
finding there her own personal sanctification. The cross, which the Sisters wear, is a central symbol
of their life, expressing outwardly that intense love of the Saviour, which is the source of their
varied works. These works have taken the Sisters into many parts of the world - to America,
Canada, Haiti, Sri Lanka and South Africa. As their number increased they went out to found new
Autonomous Houses and Mission Houses, all bound together by a common Rule and Constitution.
Each has its own Statutes and House Customs, which are relevant to the particular country, area
etc. The Founder left them with a special devotion to the Blessed Sacrament and the Holy Name of
Jesus.
St Saviour’s Priory in Haggerston is one of these Houses, formed by the Founder himself in East
London amid some of the worst slums of the time. Here the name of Mother Kate is still held in
honour, and it was to her Convent that Fr Hope Patten, the Restorer of the Shrine, made the
request which led the Sisters of St Margaret to Walsingham in 1947. During the 25 years from
1922, Walsingham had witnessed the setting up of the image of Our Lady, the re-building of the
Holy House, the creation of the pilgrimage church, and the restoration of the Shrine as a great
centre of faith and devotion in honour of the Incarnation. During these years various Orders
provided Sisters who struggled valiantly with the ever-increasing work, but none were able to
continue, for one reason or another. By 1947 it seemed as if Walsingham would be left without
Sisters. However, one foggy night, Fr Hope Patten appeared at the door of the Priory in London.
Asking for Mother Cicely, he made his desperate request without preliminaries. "Mother, we need
Sisters for Walsingham." With the Founder’s maxim in mind - 'the impossible must be done' - her
daring response in the affirmative seemed to show that his petition was of God. With the minimum
of delay, three Sisters were sent, and a Branch House of St Saviour’s Priory began.
At first, the Sisters lived in part of the old Hospice, named 'Stella Maris', their strenuous work in
the Shrine and village bringing them the love and esteem of both pilgrims and parishioners. Above
all, they brought with them to Walsingham the common life and ethos of the Community. It was in
1955, the centenary year of the Society, that the Branch House became an Autonomous House,
with its own Mother, thus enabling them to receive and train their own novices. It was a most
appropriate 'hundredth birthday gift' that the Society should be planting a new House in England’s
Nazareth, where the truth of the Incarnation is proclaimed in a special way. The Bishop of Norwich
came on May 10th to inaugurate the independent Priory and to install Sister Margaret Mary as their
first Superior. In June 1955 a start was made on the new buildings, and the foundation stone was
laid on 28 July by the Reverend Mother of St Saviour’s Haggerston. In January 1956 work began
on the Convent Chapel. This was dedicated by the Bishop of Norwich on February 9th 1957. [The
architect of the convent was John Page of Blakeney, and of the convent chapel Milner & Craze.]
Over the years the Sisters have cared for pilgrim, villager and visitor alike, in many varied ways. In
earlier times, they looked after the Hospice, made the bookings, coped with the Shrine finances,
cooked the meals, ran the sacristy – as well as helping out wherever they could in the parish. As
the years went by, and the number of pilgrims and buildings increased, they handed over most of
these works to lay people. They continue to work in the Sacristy on Saturdays, help in the busy
Education Department, are round and about the grounds and buildings whenever possible in a
pastoral capacity - as well as many other tasks outside Walsingham itself, which include Quiet
Days, preaching, conferences, spiritual direction etc. Nor must it ever be forgotten that the priority
of the traditional 'monastic' life goes on day-by-day within the Convent itself, with all the normal
duties of the household to be covered.
The Sisters welcome a small number of guests and retreatants in S Margaret’s Cottage, which has
three twin bedded rooms upstairs, as well as a single, ensuite bed-sit on the ground floor, suitable
for anyone unable to manage stairs. The cottage is self catering and is available throughout the
year for a holiday or quiet time. Religious, and women seeking a quiet time in retreat, may stay in
the Convent if they prefer to do so.
In July 1984, Mother Julian resigned on account of ill health. The little Community of eight Sisters
eventually decided that the best way forward was to ask the Chapter of St Saviour's Priory to
receive the Walsingham House back as a Branch House for the next three years, and to go from
there. In February 1985, two Sisters from London went up to Walsingham to help out, exchanging
with others from time to time. In February 1988 this arrangement became more permanent - or so
it seemed at the time!
Having retired as Mother in London in January 1992, Sister Mary Teresa went to Walsingham to
take charge as Sister Superior in March 1993. Sister Christina Mary and Sister Phyllis joined her
during the following two months. Changes began to take place in both Houses in various ways,
with the Walsingham Sisters wishing to retain the more 'monastic', traditional, way of living the
Religious Life, whereas their Sisters in London were experimenting with new ways of expressing
that life. Added to this, the Sisters in London were content with the Ordination of women, but
those in Walsingham were not happy with it. With all this in mind, it was eventually decided in both
Houses that Walsingham should once more revert to being an autonomous House of the Society.
This took place in January 1994, with Sister Mary Teresa being installed as Mother. The
Walsingham Sisters were well aware that they were taking a great risk, as their numbers were
small and the Sisters not in their first youth!! They were, however, convinced that it was the right
move to make - and it certainly left both Houses free to go the way in which each felt called by
God. Vocations began to trickle in very slowly, some coming for a time and then leaving, after
having discerned that it was not for them after all. Each brought something to the Community, and
hopefully took something away with them.
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When the three Sisters came up from London in the Spring of 1993, there were eight of the
original 'Walsingham' Sisters in the Community here. Later on, two Sisters transferred from East
Grinstead, also two from other Communities and two of the novices were professed. When the
Convent in Aberdeen closed, on the death of Mother Verity Margaret in 2002, the two remaining
Sisters were transferred to the Walsingham Chapter, and the Convent in Aberdeen was finally
closed. Sister Mary Joan subsequently died in Care. Sister Columba moved to a small flat in
Aberdeen, where she continued to live the Religious Life as a Sister of St Margaret, with some
pastoral work, until her death on 8 April 2023.
The Priory and its Chapel were restored and modernised at great cost during 1997-8, but no debts
were incurred. The Sisters had no idea at the time what this would involve, but were well aware
that much restoration was essential if they were to remain. It was soon discovered that immense
work was needed on the foundations, owing to subsidence, poor drainage and insufficient depth of
foundations. With no money, apart from what was needed for daily living expenses, the Sisters had
to set about raising all that was needed - and achieved this at a final cost of something in the
region of £750,000. The House and Chapel were recently decorated both inside and out, with a
three-year plan of regular maintenance now in place. St Margaret’s Cottage is well used by
retreatants and pilgrim groups, and the Conservatory, with its kitchenette, is also a useful meeting
place.
The Sisters maintain the fivefold Divine Office, have Mass in the Chapel Tuesday-Saturday, but
attend one of the local parishes on Sundays. Each has one and a half hour's prayer a day, a
monthly day in retreat and an annual long retreat from 5-8 days. There is daily Exposition of the
Blessed Sacrament in the Chapel from 10:30 - 12noon apart from Thursdays when Mass is
followed by a half hour Exposition and Benediction, and Sundays. It is a great joy to have local
Associates and friends, pilgrims and visitors taking part in this time of prayer. The Sisters have four
weeks holiday each year and Mondays as a free day. After several visits an Enquirer/Aspirant is
received as a Postulant for 6 months or so, followed by 2-3 years in the Noviciate and then Annual
Vows for at least three years before final Profession. Each House in the Society of St Margaret is
free to decide whether to wear secular clothing; but the Sisters here in Walsingham have chosen to
retain the traditional habit.
Three Sisters left the Priory in December 2010 in order to join the Ordinariate, and others have
died after years of devoted service. Sister Mary Teresa, aged 90, is in Care with our Sisters in
Chiswick leaving Sister Mary Angela and Sister Carol Elizabeth in the Priory. We are available for
pastoral care of pilgrims to the Shrine, assist with ‘laying on of hands’ at the liturgies of healing,
give talks to parish groups, lead Quiet Days and also assist in the Welcome Centre one afternoon a
week. Sister Carol Elizabeth leads the ‘Open the Book’ once a week in Walsingham CofE Primary
School. With each of us receiving a specific call in the Holy House (at different times) to come to
Walsingham, we are sure that this Priory will continue and are soon to welcome a promising
Aspirant. Please pray for us and for vocations to the Religious Life, as holy places need a praying
presence!
Updated by Sister Mary Angela SSM (Sister Administrator): August 2020
© The Priory of Our Lady.
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MISSION STATEMENT
We, the Sisters of the Society of S Margaret in Walsingham, are called in our diversity to strive
together to transcend the pain of a divided Church and world by our joyful 'Yes to God' in Christ. In
fulfilment of the vision of our Founder, our daily life is centred on its regular rhythm of corporate
and personal prayer.
We endeavour to make our life in Community an extension of the Holy Family. From these, and our
stable presence, flows our involvement in the ministry of welcome, healing and reconciliation in the
Shrine, the local parishes, wider church and the world.
“Behold, I make all things new”
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The 1930s: Two Sisters walking down Holt
Road past what is now the ‘Welcome Centre’
site. Behind the wall was Stella Maris’s
garage. They are probably about to turn into
the Shrine gardens through the ‘Brandie
Gate’, or perhaps into ‘Stella Maris House’
next to it. At that time the house had a door
on to the road, which can just be seen on the
right of this picture.
The story of the Sisters in Walsingham divides
neatly into two parts - before and after 16
April 1947.
In 1924 Fr Patten approached Mother Sarah of the
Community of St Peter, at Horbury in Yorkshire, for
help in running the new Hospice [what is now Stella
Maris House] and generally assisting with duties in
the Shrine. She agreed, and first sent Sisters
Veronica (the senior), Marguerite and Grace. Over
the years these Sisters, and the others who
followed, became much loved in the village and
Shrine, and were an enormous help to Fr Patten.
In 1930 the Community suffered an internal division
which resulted in Mother Sarah's moving most of
the sisters to Laleham in Surrey (from where the
Walsingham sisters then came, rather than from
Horbury as at the beginning). Harmony between Fr
Patten and Mother Sarah continued until Fr Patten
began to think in terms of establishing a permanent
autonomous House in Walsingham, breaking away
from the Laleham Community.